Adults only
Sexy Dating Features: Flirt, Chat and Meet Your Way
Matches, swiping, chat and a profile in your own voice. Here is what is waiting once you join.
Matches with a bit of spark
Each day you’re shown people worth a second look. The suggestions weigh the age range you choose, gender, how far away someone is and when they were last active, along with what they want from dating (companionship, a long-term relationship or simply friendship), lifestyle habits such as drinking and smoking, interests and religion.
If you’d rather pick for yourself, swipe right on the people you fancy and left on the rest, or browse profiles one by one. There’s no clock running, so take as long as you like.
From first hello to first date
- Build a profile with personality. Add photos, write a few lines in your own voice and say what you’re looking for. Playful beats polished.
- Get noticed. Post a status update or a photo, comment on other members’ posts and answer a poll or quiz. It’s an easy way to start a conversation without a cheesy opener.
- Talk. Message the people you like. Every membership comes with a daily allowance of messages, and anything a VIP member sends you can be read and answered.
- Meet when you both want to. Keep the chat on the site until you feel ready, then read our safety advice and choose somewhere public.
When you want more: VIP
VIP lifts the daily message limit and opens up advanced search by city, distance and what people are open to. It also brings members-only chat rooms, private group chats of up to 50, a rewind for a swipe you regret, a peek at who likes you and priority on your comments.
When you want the most: VIP Plus
VIP Plus has everything in VIP and then some: exclusive matches, your messages and likes placed ahead of the queue, and first place in the match stack. Boosts and Super Match can be added if you like. Every plan and price is on the pricing page.
Discretion is built in
You go by a username. Your real name and email address stay out of sight, and your location appears only as the nearest town or city, never your street or a live pin.
Your call, every time
Block anyone you’d rather not hear from and they can’t contact you again. If something isn’t right, report the profile or the message without leaving the site.
On your phone, on your terms
Sexy Sage Dating opens in your browser on a phone, tablet or computer, and there’s nothing to install. Add it to your home screen for one-tap access. Prefer a gentler pace? Sage Dating has the same tools in a friendlier setting.
Straight answers about the features
What do I get when I join?
A Classic membership, which covers a profile with photos, browsing, daily matches, swiping, posts, polls and quizzes and a daily allowance of messages. VIP members’ messages are yours to read and answer.
How are my matches chosen?
From the age range you set, gender, distance, how lately people were active, what they want, lifestyle, interests and religion.
What do VIP and VIP Plus add?
VIP is for chatting without limits: advanced search, chat rooms, group chats and a view of who likes you. VIP Plus puts you at the front of the queue on top.